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Chances
are you're not having quite so many devastatingly low days now. You're functioning
a little better overall, but you're still not ready to run any marathons yet or
run for public office. Don't worry about it - this recovery takes time, and it
happens so subtly you may not notice it till someone else points it out. You're
probably still not eager to spend too much time outside your home, but the cyberworld
provides many diversions (you can wander around it in your pajamas, and no one
will know). I've found that things of beauty are both soothing and refreshing
at this point, so that's where we'll start first.
Art/History
Fitness(Mental and Physical)
- Paradoxically,
it's during this time when most depressed people are beginning to feel better
that some attempt suicide. This is due to the fact that while someone is profoundly
depressed, they don't have the energy or clear mental processes necessary to plan
and carry out a suicide. Please remember, if you begin to have suicidal thoughts,
that there are people available to help you deal with your feelings. SA\VE
- Suicide Awareness\Voices of Education is a web page which provides suicide
education and support. See the Suicide Links
section for more resources.
- The philosophy behind holistic medicine, that
we should treat the body as a whole entity instead of just addressing the sick
"part", is appropriate both for treating depression and for this stage in your
recovery. De-stressing is important, since it will relieve the depression to some
extent. To this end, think about exercising. I know it's hard to even keep up
with normal stuff, but even a half hour walking a few times a week should help.
I hate to exercise, but I've been forcing myself to do it for
the last couple of years since it makes such a difference in whether I slide back
into depression during stressful times.
- Ask
Dr Weil: Relaxation has some good suggestions for de-stressing.
- If
you're not ready for aerobic exercise yet, get your body ready by doing some stretches.
Yoga Class and Yoga.com have a lot of good info.
- Also think about whether you've been treating your body well, nutrition-wise.
Eating well can help your antidepressants to work better. Nutritiously
Gourmet will help you plan meals that are good for you and taste good.
- You might be ready to stretch spiritually or re-discover your faith. About.com's
Religion section is a good
place to start. The ORCT (Ontario
Consultants on Religious Tolerance) page covers many aspects and issues of
many different religions. Interlude:
An Internet Retreat is a site with inspirational meditations, prayers and
poetry. My favorite is the Native
American prayers.
The World Outside
News
You're
probably becoming more interested in what's going on in the world, even if you're
not quite ready to deal with it face-to-face. Below are some good news sources
on the Web.
Music
- In keeping with
this page's theme of bringing the outside world in to soothe and stimulate you,
I highly recommend listening to sounds of nature, either alone or mixed with new-age
music. I myself love listening to either the sounds of the ocean, to rain or a
mountain stream (hard to believe I wasn't born under a water sign!).
- Seal
is one of my favorite artists. I think he's a good choice for your frame
of mind. Here are some clips from his music in RealAudio:
- Sarah
McLachlan is another of my favorite musical artists. Her painfully beautiful music
and lyrics are a good balance for you right now; not too sad, but not abrasively
upbeat.
Reading
The
Power of Myth is a life-altering book that sprang from a series
of conversations between Bill Moyers and mythologist/storyteller Joseph
Campbell.
Socializing
- How about just
"pretend" socializing? The Sims is a game
that lets you create a family or a single person. You can either make them into
an anti-social loner or the life of the party. It's very addictive.
- You're
probably not ready to meet people in real life, so how about getting to know some
people online?
- Chelle
is an incandescent soul who has created Chelle's
Cozy Corner, a "meandering mix of strange pages". She raises llamas, creates
wonderful web pages and does Innerviews,
my favorite of which is Max
A' La Macho. She also has links to many other pages with a mystical, spiritual
bent.
- Online
games are a good way to socialize without going outside. I play a Halfling druid,
among other characters, on Everquest.
- The
WELL is the original online community, where the talk is intelligent.
- Cafe
Utne is another online community with intelligent discussion.
- bianca:
the alternative online community
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